So, you’re dating a wonderful man who is attractive, successful, fun, and engaging. He is everything you look for in a man. You have conversations that last for hours, but feel like just minutes. You go on unconventional, mundane, exciting, and romantic dates, and you feel like there is potential for a real relationship. How can you act in a way that will make him want to say, “Will you be my girlfriend?” Here’s the breakdown of several different strategies you can use.

When you playfully share doubts with a guy about being in a relationship with him, he may decide he wants to prove you wrong and earn your affection. But, be careful to not be counterproductive and turn him down. You can play this in a cute-jokey way by saying, “You like Italian food… I’m not sure if we could ever be compatible.” Just think of it as being flirty and funny rather than playing mind games, which can be a frustration for lots of people- therefore, a turn-off.

He calls and says, “When are you available this week?” Your response should indicate that he’s not the first thing on your list. You say, “Great to hear from you. Would be lovely to see you this week, but my schedule is pretty busy. How’s Sunday afternoon?” His natural response? “Okay, I need to commit more. And yes- you will soon find out how interested he actually is in pursuing you. When you have a genuine connection with a man and offer him the qualities he seeks in mate

But, what takes connection and chemistry a step further is knowing how to discuss exclusivity in a non-intimating way – or acting in a way that encourages him to bring up the topic himself. One the best ways to do this is to be awesome in casual dating. You show him that while he needs to earn your affection, being in a relationship with you is going to be an easy/no-drama/pressure-free experience. Create positive experiences by being fun/sexy/affectionate